How Does One Tell a Friend to Seek the Help of a Local Counselor?
Do you have a friend or family member that seems troubled? Even though you are there to listen and show sympathy, there are some problems that you can’t help with. When you see a loved one make the same mistakes again and again or get involved in relationships that are harmful, or you witness a friend display signs of mental illness, then it could be time to seek out a
for help.
Telling a friend or family member they need to seek
counseling
can be extremely difficult. You run the risk of losing your friend, be ignored, or even anger that person. There are a few ways to do this and not sound offensive. However, even using the kindest way, telling a loved one they need help doesn’t mean they will take your advice in the way you mean it.
Telling a loved one they need counseling should never be done on the spare of the moment. No matter how frustrating they can be, never shout it to them, as this is the wrong way to approach such a delicate situation. Instead, try to carefully plan a time to speak to them about the matter. We always
advise
people to first do some research on their own. This will arm you better when you broach the subject with your friend.
For instance, your friend keeps getting into abusive relationships. If she seems to target people she knows will hurt her, do some research on why women choose abusive partners that hurt them. You could even make a few calls to a
local counselor
or support group for such matters, and ask their advice on how best to advise your friend.
So if you or a loved one needs to talk to someone, then call Marilyn S Boettiger LCSW at (949) 552-8737 today. We are in Sacramento, CA.